There are two kinds of sex - My unusual theory of personality

There are two kinds of sex, animal spirits sex and gender sex.

That’s because there are at least two operating systems in humans,

Both of them are emergent properties.

The first is animal spirits that keeps the organism alive: It’s the servant of the millions of cells, the many organs and even the millions of viruses and bacteria.  That is the DOS system that keeps the lights on and the plumbing running.  And it makes sure that all that DNA gets reproduced.

This is animal spirits and explains the male gaze will always at all times be evaluating breasts, hips, and other signals from females that could produce children.  That’s what it does and always will do.  It receives  its purpose by delegation upwards from the BINARY and HEXADECIMAL levels of life represented by cells, bacteria and so on.  Its purpose isn’t exactly compatible with the higher level of management, but they make do and accommodate each other. 

Personality is the senior emergent system, the WINDOWS operating system, emerging from the opportunity rich life of the human biome.    Personality is way more interesting and inventive than the animal spirits.   It is sort of piggy-backed onto the human biome while being embedded somewhat in animal spirits.   Personality wants to reproduce information and character and values but doesn’t need sex except as a support for the continuation of its own platform. Personality can handle any pronouns and any alphabet of character.   Being Bi or Trans is no more significant than being Furry or an Alien From Outer Space.

The human comedy is the uneasy truce between personality and animal spirits.  While I may want to benefit from your skills in bank reconciliation or legal analysis, the animal spirits will look at your breasts every minute or two to assess your reproductive value..    This is explained as the resultant of actions by two operating systems with different programs and doesn’t have to be integrated.   Just as we switch from dreaming life to waking life and immediately forget most of the life we just came from, but still make sense of our life, so we are simultaneously a DOS animal spirits operating system and a WINDOWS personality operating system, not exactly compatible, but with a few humorous tweaks, producing a workable narrative.